bru abes tgk cite korea ter-latest yg ad dlm laptop ak...(laptop rum8 ak..sbab lappy-baby ak tinggal kay umah..)biase r kan..nme pon exam week..so..ak kne jauhkn bnde2 yg mndtgkn kealpaan dri ak...hahaha...bnyik ayt bgitu motivated r..bngge cikgu kaunseling ak...hahaha..
pas tgk cite tu..ak terpikir something..sume bnde kat dlm hidup ni bleh tercpai klu kite btol2 usahe...eleh..ayt klise yg sme mksud ngn..usahe tngge kjayaan..sje nk elaborate pnjg..bru nmpk cam educated dlm sastera...ceit..BM for SPM pon B3..hahaha..well..ayt ni nk wat cikgu BM ak bngge bile tgk student die ni da agk pndai..haha..
playful kiss..latest tu..kakaka
n ak pon terpkir something..ak tau relationship ayt ni mmg xde kaitan ngn statements kat ats tdi..(ni la sbab ak dpt B3 in BM time SPM)...
ok..ayt die..in simple way..
'org yg dkat ngn kite tu la pling jauh dri kite'
so ikut pmahaman membe2 ak yg otk mmg xsastera lngsung..or snang ckap mmg xde sense of mamat jiwang..klu kite dok jauh dri org tu means kite la yg pling dkat ngn die..pham x??..ok cntoh situasi:
korg dok Johor..then kwan korg dok kat Uganda sne tgh kaji khidupan kt sne..then..mngikut ukuran jrak yg pkai meter..jrak korg mmg berbaloi jauh..so..kwan korg tu la org yg pling dkat kat ati korg..
skang ni pham ke x..pham kn la sndri..yg bgi mksud ni mmg xde sense of jiwang karat..blaja nk keje ngn enjin mne ad sense of jiwang..sense of nk jdi bujang karat ad la..huhu..
tpi lau logik ak plak..interpretation yg kwan ak bgi tu agk kne..sbab..mkin jauh korg ngn org tu mkin la korg rndu kat die..ak mmg tgh rndu kat mmbe2 ak yg bersepah srate Mlysia ni..
'sye nk dedikasi kn blog ni tok kwan2 sye ngn ucpan sye rndu kt dorg'..(ayt dedikasi luahan hati n perasaan kat radio Sinar ttiap mlm..btol x nme rncgn tu..???ap ak kesah..hhahaha)..ok..cut the crap..
tpi lau kite tgk pkai 3D pnye spek..(tgh dlm kekaguman tknologi 3D ag ni)..
org yg slalu ad slalu dlm hidup korg tu la org yg pling jauh ngn hati korg..logicnye ayt ni..ialah..bile korg berkwan rpat ngn someone tu..korg msti xbleh nk ad feeling kt die..sbab..die yg pling rpat ngn korg..kite msti xnk friendship kite jdi totally awkward kn?? time tu la kite wat rule sndri..cntoh nye..
'ak syg sgt kt ko..ko mcm abg ak..sbab ak xde abg'
'kitorg xbleh nk lbey sbab kite kn adik bradik'
cmne pon ayt ni mncul sbab kite tkut stu bnde..kite tkut kite cross the line of friendship..simple pnye ayt..jtuh hati ngn best friend sndri..lau korg ad situasi terjtuh hati ngn bestfren yg sme jnis..ermmm...brat pnye kes...ni tok yg berlainan jntina..tpi bleh kot nk apply ayt ak ni..hehe..ak xtau..
ad dua possibilities bile kite terjatuh hati ngn bff kite ni(lain jntina ok..)
1st possibility:
-die pon mmg da lme ad hati kat korg..then..bff(best fren for-eva tkar stats jdi BOY FREN FOR-EVA) xyah kapel lme2 ag sbab family pon da kmceng gaban..tup..tup..kawen..hepi ending..for time being..ok.
2nd possibility:
-die mmg xde ati kt korg..sbab awek or pakwe die ag mntap dri korg..ok..lame excuses..then..korg da xrpat lgi ngn die sbab die mmg avoid call or reply sms lau sender or caller tu nme korg...well..ntah r labu.nsib la kan..then korg pon hilang sorg bff...
so..sbab tu la org yg dkat ng kite tu la org yg pling jauh dri ati kite..logik x??
tpi for sspe yg blum jtuh hati kat kwan bek korg(yg lain jntina tu)..baik lpekan hasrat korg..tpi lau korg btol2 ske..trus je la ckap...ignore sume possibility yg tgh dok ad kat dlm kpale otk dungu korg tu...sbab..klu btol korg mmg kwan die yg pling rpat..korg msti pham prangai sengal or xsengal die kn???so pick up the courages n confess..
tpi bgi yg ssape yg diminati oleh bff sndri tu..snang je keje korg lau kwan korg confess truth feeling die kt korg...simple..lau ske..just say yes..lau x..say no..then lpe je r ngn ap yg die confess..keep on r jdi mmbe die..simple word..wat bodo or jdi je kwan yg bodo sbab klu korg btol xske kt kwan korg tu..korg xkn kesah pon ngn confession die sbab ati korg mmg da solid ngn word 'NO TO MY BEST BUDDY'..so watpe nk avoid kwan korg...truskan hdop..da la korg reject die..n dont make it worse ngn ignore or avoid die lak...respect feeling die..lain la lau kwan korg tu mmg trus nk ptus kwan pas korg reject die...
simple step right???
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aku xprnh dpt jd kn lelaki sebagai bff.. sbb stiap kali hubungan tu mula rapat, msti trjdnya luahan prsaan.. yg mne si lelaki akn mngatakn.. "sbnrnye aku dh lame suke kt ko, sudi x ko couple ngan aku?" hampeh, ayt mmg xleh bla.. haha..
ReplyDeletepd aku bile seorg lelaki tu blh lyn kepale ngan lawak maki hamun aku, die hanya akn jd sekadar kwn.. ia smcm 1 pndrian bg aku.
same r...lyan lwak gaban ak..means ko kwan ak...hhahaha
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